Saturday Evening Post, Nov. 29, 1947
Burnt Turkey by Constantin Alajalov

Thanks angst? Ever been at a Thanksgiving dinner where the tension of getting the perfect meal on the table resulted in hurt feelings and a meal eaten in sullen silence?

I thought so.

Michele Martinez at Lipstick Chronicles started panicking a week ago.

I think what's unnerving me is simply this -- I'm getting old.

That's right. I'm not the guest any more, I'm the hostess. I'm not the kid, I'm the grown-up. Okay, I've been at the grown-ups' table at holidays for many years now. Many, many years. But never at the head. I was always one of the young grown-ups. My parents and their generation were still the hosts.

Would a page of memories of Thanksgiving "disasters" help? (Lesson: Keep pets outside, remove the giblets bag, frozen may stay that way.)

New rule: The aim is a fun feast with family and friends. The perfect meal is the one we end up with. If we burn the green beans, forget the rolls or drop the milk, it's okay. "Oops" will do.

Ah! on Thanksgiving day, when from East and from West,
From North and from South come the pilgrim and guest,
When the gray-haired New Englander sees round his board
The old broken links of affection restored,
When the care-wearied man seeks his mother once more,
And the worn matron smiles where the girl smiled before,
What moistens the lip and what brightens the eye?
What calls back the past, like the rich Pumpkin pie?

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